Category: New Blog Posts

  • How I Choose Natural Fibers for a Pair of Natur-yl Earrings

    How I Choose Natural Fibers for a Pair of Natur-yl Earrings

    Choosing a fiber for earrings means looking beyond a pretty color. I want to know what the strand contains, how it behaves in a small shape, and what I can honestly say about the finished pair. For Natur-yl, that starts with a materials notebook before a product description.

    A soft, simple design is the direction. The details still matter: the fiber, the findings, and the way the pair comes together. This is a look at the questions behind that choice, rather than a finished-product reveal.

    Start with what the label actually says

    “Natural” is a starting point, not a complete materials list. Cotton and wool are different fibers, and a yarn can contain a blend. Before naming a material in a listing, keep the label or supplier description with the making notes. Record the stated fiber percentages and identify which part of the earring they describe.

    A cotton body does not make every component cotton. Hooks, jump rings, thread, backing, and any adhesive need their own notes. If a component is uncertain, leave the claim out until it is checked.

    Look at texture at the scale of an earring

    A strand can look lovely in a skein and behave differently in a small piece. Make a sample in the intended shape. Look at the edges, the thickness, and whether the detail is still visible from a little distance. Hold it against a plain card so the background does not do all the work.

    Ask a practical question: does this texture suit the design? A soft outline and a defined outline can both be beautiful. Choose deliberately, and keep a note of the sample that produced the result you wanted.

    Check the whole pair, including the hooks

    The fiber gets the close-up, but the findings are part of what someone wears. Record the supplier’s stated hook metal separately. A silver-colored finish alone does not establish what the metal is.

    Do not turn an unconfirmed metal description into a comfort or allergy promise. A useful product description tells the reader what is known, including the component involved, so she can make her own decision.

    Try the actual sample before writing the reveal

    Once a pair exists, look at how it hangs and moves. Check that the two pieces belong together, that connections are secure, and that the finish matches what you intend to show. If you wear-test the sample, describe only what you observed. “Lightweight” should not stand in for an actual weight or a clear description of the specific pair.

    The same honesty applies to photographs. A close-up of the real materials and the real finished piece says more than an illustration that looks like a product photograph. The artwork accompanying this notebook is illustrative; it does not show an available Natur-yl pair.

    Keep one simple materials card

    • Fiber: exact composition stated by the label or supplier.
    • Source: supplier and label information kept with the sample.
    • Findings: stated metal for hooks and other components.
    • Construction: what was used to assemble this pair.
    • Sample notes: shape, movement, finish, and any changes made.
    • Care: instructions appropriate to the actual materials, once confirmed.

    That card becomes the foundation for a clear description. It also helps separate the brand’s direction from the facts of one particular item. Wanting natural materials is a creative intention; naming the materials in a pair is a specific claim to check.

    Let the making take the time it needs

    There is something satisfying about paying attention to a small object. The fibers, a neat connection, the way a shape rests against a card—those details can carry the whole design without adding more decoration.

    If your making space shares a room with everything else, the one-corner workday reset offers a small place to begin. A clear patch of table and one materials card can be enough for the next step.

    For this Natur-yl notebook, the next step is to document an actual pair: fiber label, hook information, process close-up, and finished view. Which detail would you like to see first—the texture or how the pair comes together?

    ~Until next time~

  • A Workday Reset When the Apartment Is Still Lived In

    A Workday Reset When the Apartment Is Still Lived In

    You can reset a workday without resetting the whole apartment. Choose one useful corner, remove what gets in the way, and leave yourself one clear next step. The rest of the room can still look lived in.

    When home holds work, meals, learning, and everybody’s belongings, the mess can feel like a running commentary on everything unfinished. But a basket on the floor does not cancel the work you did. A crowded counter does not mean the day was wasted.

    This is a small reset to try when you need a little breathing room without turning the evening into another shift.

    Give one corner one job

    Start with the place that would make the next part of your day easier. That might be your desk before a work block, a chair where you want to sit, or a small patch of counter for preparing food.

    Choose a useful result: “There is room for my notebook” is clearer than “This apartment needs to look better.” You are making space for an action, not arranging a room for an audience.

    Move the things that block that job

    Take dishes to their usual place. Put loose papers together. Return the few items whose homes are close by. If something belongs elsewhere and you cannot deal with it now, collect it in one temporary tray rather than starting a tour of every room.

    That tray is a pause, not a new permanent pile. Choose a later moment to empty it. For now, stop when the corner can do its job.

    Keep work and home from spilling into every minute

    If you are working, save this reset for a time when you are free to step away. You do not need to squeeze a chore into every pause between tasks. A break can simply be water, a stretch, or a few quiet minutes.

    At the end of a work block, close what you can close. Put notes where you will find them again. Keep private work information out of family spaces and out of any footage you record.

    Write one next step

    A whole list can follow you around the room. A single next step gives the reset somewhere to end.

    Try a plain note: “Open the lesson book after breakfast,” “Review the first task when work starts,” or “Put the tray away after dinner.” Pick the one that fits your actual day. You do not need a new planner or a full routine to do this.

    Let the room stay honest

    You can leave a blanket on the sofa. You can leave tomorrow’s laundry for tomorrow. If the cleared corner is useful, the reset has already done something.

    If you want to film it, keep the camera on what actually happens: the mug being set down, papers being gathered, a notebook opening. A small finished action is enough of a story. There is no need to pretend the rest of the apartment transformed off camera.

    A tiny reset you can borrow

    • Choose one corner and name its job.
    • Remove only what blocks that job.
    • Put loose items together for a later return.
    • Leave the tool you need next within reach.
    • Write one next step, then stop.

    Some days you will want to do more. Some days that little patch of space will be all you have the energy for. Both can be real days.

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    What is one ordinary thing that helped your day? Start there. You do not have to clear the whole apartment to make room for yourself.

    ~Until next time~

  • Feeling Overwhelmed by Motherhood and Life: Finding Balance on the Narrow Path

    Feeling Overwhelmed by Motherhood and Life: Finding Balance on the Narrow Path

    Lately, I’ve been feeling overwhelmed by life. Some of it comes from the everyday responsibilities of being a wife, a mother, and a woman trying to build something for her family. But some of it comes from learning—questioning things I once accepted and looking more closely at what I believe.

    I’ve been thinking about what’s really true beyond religion, what the Messiah came to do, who rules this world, and what it means to keep walking a path that feels narrower as I learn.

    There’s so much I want to unpack. Today, though, I just want to share where I am.

    When the Material World Takes Up Too Much Space

    The more I examine things, the more this material world feels like captivity to me. There are so many rules, bills, expectations, and demands pulling at our attention. Sometimes it feels like everything is arranged to keep us focused on surviving here, with little room left to turn our hearts toward our Eternal Father.

    And yet, I still have responsibilities here. My children need me. There’s work to do, a household to care for, and a future I’m trying to help build.

    I’m still figuring out how to meet those needs without letting them consume every part of me.

    Motherhood, Broken Sleep, and the Weight of Everyday Life

    In this season, I’ve realized that I’ve lost some of the balance I need to keep myself steady.

    Caring for my children, working, and managing my daily duties has started to feel burdensome. I can see myself heading toward burnout if I don’t address it.

    My husband and I have a date night once a month, and I value that time together. But I’m realizing that I also need relief in the everyday moments. One evening together doesn’t make up for weeks of feeling stretched thin.

    Since my youngest arrived thirteen months ago, uninterrupted sleep has been hard to come by. That has been rough. Being needed throughout the day and then waking through the night leaves very little time to recover.

    Honestly, there have been moments when I’ve felt like I don’t want to have any more children after this.

    That’s a difficult feeling to put into words, but it’s part of where I am right now. I love my children, and I’m tired. Both are true.

    I’ve even wondered whether these feelings are another distraction from the family goals we’re working toward. But I also have to consider that my exhaustion needs attention. I can’t keep pushing it aside and expect to feel balanced.

    Building a Future While Trying to Stay Present

    There’s a lot I want to accomplish: fixing my credit so we can move toward life on our land, building my business, publishing more books, and continuing to develop as a person.

    Those goals matter to me. They’re connected to the life I want for my family.

    Still, carrying all of them at once can feel heavy. Even when I’m doing one thing, my mind is often on everything else that needs to happen.

    I’m trying to think through what would help me overcome this feeling of being constantly overwhelmed. Where can I make room to rest? What needs my attention now, and what can wait? What would make an ordinary day feel more manageable?

    I don’t have all those answers yet, but I know I need to make some changes.

    My Books Are Changing as I Learn

    I’m also in the process of publishing more books. As I learn, I’ve been editing out a name I previously used because my understanding is changing.

    I may revisit and revamp my His Worth and Her Worth book series soon, too.

    That takes time and thought. I want to look carefully at what I’ve written and decide what still reflects my understanding and what needs to be revised. I’ll share more as that process unfolds.

    There are also things connected to my sisterwife that I haven’t fully dissected yet. That’s another part of my life I’m still working through, and I’m not ready to unpack all of it in this post.

    Still Walking the Narrow Path

    So that’s where I am today: learning, questioning, caring for my family, and recognizing that I need to find balance before I burn out.

    I want to keep growing closer to our Eternal Father. I also want to be present with my children and have enough energy to enjoy the life we’re building.

    I’m still here, trekking along. Some days I feel clearer than others. Today, sharing this honestly feels like a place to begin.

    If you’re feeling overwhelmed by motherhood and the weight of everyday life, what helps you make room to breathe?

    ~Until next time~

  • The Yah Ordained Order: Why My Husband Comes Before My Children

    The Yah Ordained Order: Why My Husband Comes Before My Children

    Let us talk about a truth that the modern world often rejects or misunderstands. In our home, my husband comes before my children.

    When a man and a woman join together in marriage, scripture tells us they forsake their parents and become one flesh. That concept of one flesh means complete and unbreakable unity. It is a Yah ordained covenant, and it forms the foundation of the entire household. Everything else, including parenting, flows directly from the strength of that marriage.

    The Honor of Being a Helpmeet

    A woman was created specifically to be a helpmeet. Our design is to fulfill our role by propelling whatever vision the Most High has given to our husbands. This is not a burden or a secondary position. It is a profound, divine calling that should be taken with the utmost honor and respect.

    My husband is my focus and my priority because without him, I cannot fulfill the purpose I was designed for. I show my dedication and love to the Most High by loving and serving my husband. He is my master and the lord over me, exactly as Yah ordained. By aligning my life to support his vision, I am living out my faith and proving my worthiness to the Creator.

    Raising Children to See the Order

    Our children need to know this truth, and more importantly, they need to see it play out in real life every single day. Motherhood is a monumental role in itself. As a mother, I am the keeper of our children, working alongside my husband to help him guide them in the right and righteous way.

    Children are the beautiful result of our love union, but they are not the head of the household. They need to understand these roles by watching how I respect and serve their father. This creates a secure, stable environment for them to grow up in, rooted in divine order rather than chaos.

    The Reality of the Empty Nest

    Children also need to understand this dynamic because they are not meant to stay under our roof forever. They will get older. They will eventually go off, get married, and carry out the specific vision the Most High has set out for their own lives.

    When that season arrives and the house is quiet again, it will still just be me and my husband. The marriage was here before the children arrived, and the marriage will remain long after they leave to build their own families. By prioritizing my husband now, I am nurturing the covenant that will last a lifetime, fulfilling the true role I was given by Yah.

    ~You got this~

  • The Yah Ordained Order: Embracing My True Role as a Wife

    The Yah Ordained Order: Embracing My True Role as a Wife

    I have reached a point in my life where nothing else matters quite like my duty to my husband through the Most High. It is a profound shift, learning to love my husband and trust him as fully as I would trust Yah.

    I will be the first to admit that this is not an easy transition. When you have the teachings of the world, past trauma, and your own upbringing standing in the way, surrender feels incredibly difficult. But there is a specific moment when the scripture finally clicks. When the concept of serving your husband as unto the Most High truly resonates within your spirit, it changes the entire story of your marriage.

    Understanding the Assignment

    When you understand your Yah ordained role and actually live it, it transforms how you treat your husband, regardless of his daily actions or shortcomings. It is no longer just about your dynamic with him; it means aligning everything you do to him in order to please the Most High.

    I love my husband deeply, and I am entirely willing to do my best in my commitment to him. But this journey has not been perfect. I have messed up. There were times I acted completely out of character, bringing a spirit of rebellion into our home and resisting his order. Yet, it was his unwavering love for me, combined with my own commitment to our covenant, that made me want to push harder for him. His grace gave me the space to grow, to overcome my own flesh, and to become the helpmeet I was called to be.

    Rejecting the Teachings of the World

    We live in a culture that pushes a very different narrative. The world teaches you that self is the most important thing. You constantly hear the message that you do not need a man and that independence is the ultimate goal.

    But we know who rules this world, and naturally, its most common and popular messages are completely anti the Most High. The world wants to dismantle the family because family and marriage are a Yah ordained order.

    Being a devoted wife and loving your children is not a burden or a step backward. It is a divine duty. By fulfilling those roles with grace, submission, and love, we are actively serving the Most High and building a legacy that the world simply cannot break.

    ~You got this~